ive realized that having kids makes it impossible to do the things that other 22/23 year olds do... or 20s people in general i suppose.. going out, hanging out with friends, getting coffe, parties.. that whole thing... i enjoy bars and what not, but not to drink, just to get out of the house... now with full custody i dont even get a chance to do that ever... no money for babysitters etc... my way of escape is through books and thankfully the books ive been reading lately are of good enough authors...