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  1. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Irrelevant to this thread. I think what you're trying to do is move the focus away from what is happening (or not happening) on BAR so, with that said, I'm going to leave you to your word games and wait to see what happens here over the next week or so.
  2. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Blunt doesn't equal rude. Also, I never said I agreed.
  3. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Sure, if it makes you happy. Text comes over in different ways to different people, so yup.
  4. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    I don't recall seeing you post any facts.
  5. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    You're confusing aggression with bluntness. There's nothing aggressive about pointing out a fact (sarcastic possibly).
  6. Azhria Lilu

    Want some opinions about erotica I am writing

    I think what your publisher might be saying is that their reader base is looking for the Happy Ever After type of read - you don't really get that with a book about adultery. Truth will out, as they say. I do hope that your writing style is a little better than your posting style though lol...
  7. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Sure they do (I'm a site owner myself) but they have to earn it. Your new (and ever so passionate) admin has made a total of 8 posts since Sunday - where's the interest and dedication there?
  8. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    I certainly is. But, if I'm honest, I'm not hopeful.
  9. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    You know that statement alone is basically telling people that BAR is elitist and unless you have x amount of posts you have no right to say a thing. Another offputting thing to see on a forum. I'm not being non-committal at all, I'm being honest. If the site stays as stagnant as it is, then...
  10. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    I purr more often than I meow. About opening a forum? No, not really.. it was more trying to emphasise that this place has the potential, but if it's not going to be recognised I might put some thought into it at some point. And I'm definitely not backward in coming forward, I just try to be...
  11. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    I wasn't bargaining or dangling a stick and carrot, I was offering a point of view. Don't like it, that's absolutely fine. I see you removed the smiley from my sentence to make it look like I was being serious. If you reread, you'll see there was a smiley there to show I wasn't being serious...
  12. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Apologies for the double posting, I didn't see this post until after I'd hit reply. The following I post as a forum administrator/owner of over 12 years and not as a potential member. I've worked with a lot of admins over the years, helping them to build, rebuild, change, write rules etc, so...
  13. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Possibly. I don't really get along with the current layout of the site, and I don't have lots of free time away from my own sites - the time I do have is usually spent reading, when the kids aren't vying for my attention. Most forums are dependent on the activity of its owners, and I am a...
  14. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Indeed they do. But I also firmly believe that the manner with which an admin/mod deals with criticism says a lot about their character ;)
  15. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    Thanks guys. I did think about it for a day or so before I posted it as I wasn't sure how it would be received, since I'm not a hugely active poster. I run forums myself, and have done for a long long time, so I know how hard it can be to hear criticism come from what could be perceived as an...
  16. Azhria Lilu

    New BAR Admins - SuperReaderGirl & Nifty - Saying Hello

    I'm not a huge poster here, but I do visit often. I don't post mainly because I find BAR to be a bit cluttered and haphazard with its layout, but this thread kinda drove me to log in and say something. I've noticed that the BAR seems pretty dead these days, not many new posts happening at all...
  17. Azhria Lilu

    How do y'all stick with 1 avatar?

    I have about 3 avatars I use, but the one I have now is the one I use most. It's part of the logo for a blog I neglect.
  18. Azhria Lilu

    Are there and Photoshop gurus here?

    Yeah.. maybe it's best to quit while you're ahead :devillook
  19. Azhria Lilu

    Are there and Photoshop gurus here?

    Please don't sue me, I'm pretty sure I did nothing illegal :eek: ;) Seriously though, I'm glad you got it sorted! I like playing with PS, so if you need anything don't hesitate to yell :)
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