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Long Distance
- Thread starter Catalyst
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mehastings
Active Member
Catalyst said:
Why don't you just break up with the guy and bag Stewart?
cajunmama
Active Member
My husband and I were long distance (1500 miles, and no, I'm not converting that to kilometers 
) for a few years before we eventually married. What's the difference between 4 miles and four thousand miles? If you can't trust him now, then you won't be able to trust him when you're half a world away. We wrote all the time, called when we could afford it, missed each other like crazy, and just basically trusted each other. Trust is just a part of the relationship, and you either have it or you don't. I wish I could be more encouraging. Long distance worked for us, but I know it doesn't work for everyone. It isn't easy, that's for sure.
) for a few years before we eventually married. What's the difference between 4 miles and four thousand miles? If you can't trust him now, then you won't be able to trust him when you're half a world away. We wrote all the time, called when we could afford it, missed each other like crazy, and just basically trusted each other. Trust is just a part of the relationship, and you either have it or you don't. I wish I could be more encouraging. Long distance worked for us, but I know it doesn't work for everyone. It isn't easy, that's for sure.
Catalyst
New Member
Thank you for some serious replies. The problem is that it is the start of the relationship. When i met him i knew where he lived. its been 4 months so far and i do trust myself a lot because i know how i feel, but he is being a typical man and wont discuss his feelings! So im not sure how serious he is. Iv spent some time with him at his home and met some of his friends and an ex girlfriend.
Lol, id rather travel to Northampton than Glasgow
and im sure Stewart would never dream of going with someone from Edinburgh, unless it was a dare! 
Oh and i am a miles rather than kilometers person so no bother there.
Lol, id rather travel to Northampton than Glasgow
and im sure Stewart would never dream of going with someone from Edinburgh, unless it was a dare! Oh and i am a miles rather than kilometers person so no bother there.
Zolipara
New Member
I've been in two long distance relationships. In both cases i ended up breaking up with the girl, but not because of trust issues. Its just that when you spend so much time apart it dont really feel like a relationship anymore. I still have a lot of contact with the last girl though and we might just start over.